Learn to trust your intuition, because that very first instinctive feeling is usually correct.
It’s when we over-analyse and question, that the the truth evades us. Emotions begin to take over and blur our judgement. If you instinctively feel something, don’t try to second guess it or you will try to find a logical reason to why it can’t be true.
And don’t act on it straight away. Sit calm. Truth has a way of presenting itself when it is least expected. And don’t look for clues or evidence to back you up, as things have a way of looking like what we think they are.
If that very first gut-feeling is right, all will come to light eventually. Men are not all as smart as they like to portray themselves and they will try to make it into something else, or worst still, deny, deny, deny.
But when the truth comes out, don’t be afraid to demand that respect of yourself. Don’t be afraid to walk away from that person who does not fit your standards. You have the right to demand it because you deserve it. Don’t let him convince otherwise.
He will lie to you. He will deny everything. He will give you a story that sounds like the truth. He will do all this because he doesn’t want to be seen for who he really is and because he doesn’t want to lose you. But, don’t let him fool you. He didn’t ‘make a mistake’, he did it out of selfishness. Out of the inability to control himself. A man who has no control cannot be trusted. And if he does have control over his actions and still does it, then he is no man worthy of you.